It’s so sweet to see how this new change in direction is turning out!
I’ve now worked with a couple of people whom I’ve never met. I wondered what it would be like.
Doing just one hands-on session with someone creates a relationship, a history, a shared experience, an energy field based on mutual intent for healing. The distance sessions I’ve done with people I know have worked out well, and I’ve attributed that to “Well, we’re familiar. We know each other. We’ve already established a field of trust.”
What would it be like to do a session, over the phone, with someone halfway across the U.S. whom I’ve never met?
I’m happy to report that, just as for hands-on sessions with people I know, these long distance sessions have also worked out well.
I listen with full attention. Sometimes I have a clue about what’s going on in their body-mind system, and sometimes I don’t. Either way, having the person relax and scan their body helps identify a location that wants attention.
From there, I ask questions that help the person engage in listening and communicating with that location.
I’ve recently encountered this quote:
Attention is the most basic form of love. Through it we bless and are blessed.
~ John Tarrant
That’s really the key, giving attention.
Sometimes people may be in pain, which is a signal that something needs attention.
Sometimes people feel stuck emotionally, for example, feeling anxiety before an important meeting.
Sometimes people simply need more resources to help them get through these extraordinary times.
Sometimes memories they’ve repressed emerge.
We work toward some kind of resolution, even if we don’t know what it is at first.
It could be feeling less pain.
It could be feeling some clarity about a situation.
It could be finding new images, even a vision, that gives someone courage and strength to move ahead.
It could be integrating traumatic memories from childhood with the resources of an adult.
However a distance session takes place, it’s always an adventure.
You have four jaw muscles: the two large ones on the outside of your head (the masseter and temporalis) and the four small ones inside your mouth (two medial pterygoids and two lateral pterygoids).
Any of them can get trigger points.
What is a trigger point? Healthy muscle tissue is made of bundles of fibers that run in the same direction. This tissue is pliable. It stretches or contracts when you move.
A trigger point is a spot where the muscle tissue has lost its pliability. A massage therapist may feel that the fibers in a particular spot have become glued together and hard, creating a small nodule. The tissue feels denser and often rolls under the fingers, compared to healthy muscle tissue.
This causes that band of muscle fibers to become shorter and tighter, restricting full range of movement of the entire muscle.
If you can’t open your mouth wide, or move your jaw easily left and right, forward and back, you may very well have trigger points in your jaw muscles.
Trigger points usually feel tender when you apply pressure to them, and they may also refer pain elsewhere. They may also form “constellations.” This makes them the tricksters of the nervous system.
You can work on your own trigger points to release them. It helps if you’ve received trigger point work from an experienced massage therapist, but you can learn to do it yourself. Even then, you may prefer to have someone else work on them, especially if you have a lot of them in multiple jaw muscles.
It is written for laypeople to release their own trigger points, but I know many massage therapists who use it as a reference book in their offices.
When I am working on TMJ issues, I notice that many people have trigger points in their masseters, the big external jaw muscles on the sides of your face that run from your cheekbone to the bottom of your jawbone.
Here’s how to find trigger points in your own jaw: using a bit pressure, drag your fingers slowly down the masseter muscle on one side of your face. Do this several times, experimenting with adding pressure, and notice if there are tender spots or “roll-y” spots. Repeat on the other masseter.
If you don’t have masseter trigger points, this usually feels pretty good.
If you find trigger points in your masseters (and you can still have TMJ issues without them), there are several ways of treating them.
Some therapists apply a huge amount of pressure. I don’t recommend this because if you have TMJ issues, your jaw is probably already out of alignment, and this could make it worse.
A better way, in my opinion, is to use less pressure. Yes, you can gently release trigger points!
I learned to do this from a local (Austin) massage therapist who is very experienced with trigger point release. She’s worked on me and released many trigger points, teaching me how to do this in the process.
If you have a lot of trigger points, I highly recommend seeing her. She works intra-orally, as do I, but her experience is greater than mine, and she’s amazing at discovering patterns if you have “constellations” of trigger points. She’s going to be more efficient than I can possibly be. She is the queen!
If you are interested in having her work on you, her name is Rose of Sharon, and you can reach her by phone or text at 512-282-1672. Please leave a message with your name and number so she can contact you.